Nancy Isime is looking for a husband, marry when your heart, mind, and life are ready age doesn't matter.



Nancy preaching about marriage like kilode on the timeline shows nothing dey the street. They say when a man wants to get married, he is in love but when a woman wants to get married she's getting old. 


Women often learn important things at old age while men pick important things from a younger age because much is expected from them.


Tiwa Savage is looking for a husband

Toke Makinwa is looking for a husband 

Nancy Isime is looking for a husband

Princess the comedian is looking for a husband

DJ Cuppy is looking for a husband.


Who else?


Okay, Tonto Dikeh has used wisdom to go back home like the prodigal son. We shall intercede for others. 


Do not deceive yourself, women have a biological clock different from men. A woman's prime is from 18 to 24 years. No woman who is high value stays in the dating market beyond 25 years. Let's leave marriage first. 


During a girl's prime years, she usually attracts many potential suitors, giving her a wide range of choices when it comes to marriage. Sadly, this is the period modern girls want to explore because they think the world revolves around them. 


You should be honest with yourself. Age matters like mad. Any man who settles for a woman in her 30s settled less and should be excited about it. Really men have to love themselves more to make better choices of women. Stop being women's retirement plan

 Marriage is their biggest achievement and they know it. 


Between 18 to 24 years as a girl, you had different kinds of men approaching you. Suitors were everywhere. Serious men. Focused men. Men who are ready to build, marry, and commit. What do many women say then?


“I’m not ready.”

"I want to build my career" 

“I want to live my best life.”

“I want to explore.”

“I want to date around.”

“I don’t want to settle yet.”

"I don't want any man to control me" 


Translation?

They want freedom.

They want attention.

They want high body counts.

They want fun without responsibility.


And here’s the irony: the men approaching them at that stage are often the best candidates for marriage. Men who value youth, femininity, peace, and fertility. Men who are willing to invest early.


Fast forward 7 to 10 years. She’s now 30+. The attention has reduced. The options have shrunk. Reality has arrived. Now she’s suddenly “ready.” Now she’s chasing commitment. Now she’s forcing conversations about marriage onto men. She has become feminine and religious.


But here’s the part nobody wants to hear: men don’t operate backwards. High value men do not want women who are past their prime, emotionally exhausted, filled with regrets, comparisons, and baggage. They want what they wanted then, not leftovers now.


This isn’t cruelty. This is timing and value. Men choose. Women wait. Women choose sex. Men choose commitment. Miss your window and you don’t get to renegotiate reality. Biology doesn't care. That’s the hard truth.


Kings never settle for older women.Apparently, at 25, the best of all women should be married and nurturing a home or modern sense, should be in a serious exclusive relationship. The rest are just retirees rebranding to be something else.


Kings go for the younger one and not the older ones. It's not just about age it's about moldability. You want a woman who's able to learn to adapt and grow with you and you want to build together. So what exactly are you going to teach a woman who is already hardened by life, stuck in her ways and carrying more baggage than luggage, argues every time you're trying to lead or guide her.


That's not a relationship, that's Mortal Kombat. But younger girls are open, they have curiosity and are impressionable. She is an advantage because she's been shaped in love, not control.


As a man, you're a builder by nature , you want family, empire, and career. Therefore, you should choose women who want to be built with not the one who fights the blueprint that you lay down. The first purpose of a woman is to serve a man. You need a woman not a fellow man in a woman's body.

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